Euthanasia

Determining when it is time to say the last good-bye to your beloved pet is a difficult and painful experience. Pets give us so much without asking for much in return. They fill our lives with happiness, humor and unending love. Making the choice to end the life that was once so full of energy but now is empty is a huge responsibility that comes with a heavy emotional toll. Often we are not equipped with the information or experience to make this decision on our own. There are several people you can turn to at this difficult time including your veterinarian, veterinary staff, spiritual leaders, family and friends. Almost all of us have endured the pain of the loss of a loved one. Some people may find it an uneasy conversation to delve into especially if they are concerned that no one will understand that special bond that exists between some people and their pets. That is the time to turn to your veterinarian. Almost inevitably they have experienced that bond and the loss and will understand. They certainly will not ridicule you.

Part of a veterinarian’s job is to help bring clarity to an often hazy situation. Death and euthanasia are things they deal with regularly when a normal or lay person does not have that experience. Also, they know the science behind diseases including whether your pet is suffering, if that suffering can be relieved, and prognosis of the disease. Use your vet as your guide and take the information that they give combine it with the everyday reality of what you see at home and make the decision based on what is best for you beloved pet. This is the time to be self-less and provide your pet with a last gentle show of compassion.

At the time of the euthanasia, you may wish to be present or not. That is a personal decision and everyone feels differently about it. Do not be embarrassed about crying in front of your veterinarian, they often cry too. Rest assured that none of the veterinary staff will think less of you for loving your pet and showing it.

We are all dying. Our pets can help us learn to live our lives more fully. Create all the happy memories with your pets that you can. Treat them lovingly. You will remember forever that you did these things for them, and that knowledge comfort you.

The final decision you will need to make when euthanizing a pet is what to do with their remains. Most veterinarians offer various forms of cremation and some of your local funeral homes will have that option or caskets for burial.